Friday, February 29, 2008

Outta Here

Off to visit family and friends for a long weekend (and finding some warmer weather while we are at it!!)

{I won't even start on dropping off our pooch at the kennel where we were greeted by lovely, sweet vets who took Ralph away and how he gave me the "oh. I can't believe you are leaving me here!!" look. :( }

Have a lovely weekend!

Tuesday, February 26, 2008

Warm Meal on a Cold Day

**It's by Lundberg farms (I think), I found it near the rice/couscous/specialty pasta section!**


Yum.

I made this Butternut squash risotto for lunch the other day. A combination of a few of my favorite things: butternut squash and risotto. It was a cold, blustery day and the warm risotto hit the SPOT. It's low-cal, low-fat and gluten free. It was creamy with hints of squash but not overpowering. I added a handful of green peas b/c I wanted to up my veggie factor and they added green to the bowl. P didn't like it - too mushy and not enough meat. What can ya do? More for me. (Because I was seriously close to eating the entire box - it was low cal enough though that I didn't feel guilty).

Off to drink some wine and watch Jon & Kate plus 8. I've been subbing the past few days and all I've gotta say is hats off to the teachers/mamas/full time working mamas because I'm pooped taking caring of myself, my man and my dog!

Have a good one.

Monday, February 25, 2008

I have a busy week ahead so perhaps not as much posting but I'll probably (definitely!) will make time to read.

I have to get ready for our trip next week (which is really a 5 day weekend) and for the first time board our pooch! We've always had friends and family to take care of him and this is new. I'm a little emotionally distraught but also worried because I didn't realize that these places filled up! Like, I need to be confirming a reservation ASAP. Yikes!!

I need to figure out how to post my camera phone pictures to the internet. Which, I'm guessing, would require me to add internet service to my phone (which I'm planning on doing) but it would also require me to get to the Sprint store. I try to avoid the cell phone stores at all costs. I'm constantly snapping away now and have some funny ones to share.

Speaking of funny photos, I believe we brought a little hillbilly to our new home this weekend. We've been looking for a couch forever. Finally, FINALLY, found one we both loved that would be our precious life long couch. From this designer. Just out of our budget at the moment. Credit card debt > couch happiness. BUT, we know what we want and it would be custom ordered (gee, expensive). In the meantime, we are dropping off some things at the local Goodwill on Saturday. Which is buzzing with people and clean. (Big difference from some I've been to). And filled with treasures! What do we see? But a couch in IMPECCABLE shape and with the lines we like. Impeccable as in my neurotic self scanned and sniffed, one tiny stain but otherwise, very well taken care of! The fabric = Grandma style (which I enjoy - not hating on the grandma's but not our personal taste). We have an armchair that was P's grandpa's that has the same lines and we've been planning on getting upholstered. This couch has a wingbacked look and would be fabulous for a formal living room in a great fabric. Done and Done. $60.00 later and we are the owners. Long story short, P got called to work both days this weekend* and didn't get home until we had an hour to pick up said couch. What does one do with leftover moving rope, ratchets and blankets? Strap old Grandma couch to the hood of the car like regular old hillbillies and drive the 1.5 mile verrrryyyyy slowly home. It was a spectator sport. And, I had a bluegrass cd in the car and we cranked it up. Oh, god I was laughing so hard!


**Speaking of weekend, not really so much because P was called into work both days, really figuring out and solving other people's problems. Personal life peeve = when hard work is not appreciated. I went in with him Saturday to help him write a professionally bitchy email. I mean, us English grads, what are we good for besides being able to write professionally bitchy emails and long blog posts!? Right? :)

Have a good week!

Friday, February 22, 2008

TGIF

What to do when TomTom gets you lost? I've realized we have become extremely too reliant on GPS/TomTom/technology.

Example: Yesterday I had a "meeting" (def. not an interview but meeting with someone about teaching perhaps in the future - not really too exciting, but what I expected. And I know I shouldn't say this, but the person didn't give me a speck of enthusiasm and really put a damper on my impression of the place...but I digress) which was an easy drive. Heck, I looked at it on Mapquest and though to myself, ehhh, I'll take TomTom just in case. Seriously (and I don't know why) Tom had me swinging around through a neighborhood (a very scary lock your doors and take DOWN your TomTom neighborhood) when I could have stayed on the original road, looked UP and SEEN the darn place. Instead of racing around, cursing at TomTom and getting there almost late.

Anyway, I have some vague possibilities for part time jobs I'd like to try out - so good job vibes this way would be SUPER appreciated!

In other news, we are taking a jaunt down South to visit friends, family and P doing work things. He had to go and we thought we would make a trip of it for 5 days! I'm thrilled I get to see everyone b/c this was a little unexpected. Woohoo, just in time for my birthday!

I wish I could say we had great plans for the weekend but probably just the same old. P is putting in a lot of hours at work and just wants to rest on the weekend, which I totally understand. We usually "hibernate" during the winter weekends and then go out, weekend trip and do fun things in the summer/spring.

I've always thought it would be stimulating and sophisticated to live in D.C. and be among the Washington political lifestyle. All of the preppy political conversation (and shopping!) Oh my!

My political crush (whether or not I agree with him) is Tucker Carlson. Always with the bowties - I think he's adorable!

Thursday, February 21, 2008

Errands

You ever have one of those days where you have put off running errands for a long while and then your entire day is consumed with it? That's my day to day. Off running around! Busy week - looking forward to the weekend.

To brighten up this otherwise scintillating post, here's a Gap cardigan which I think is absolutely adorable and I would wear it all the time. Loving Gap and their return to bright, fun spring colors this season!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Incredible!

Wonder how the hubby felt today when he unpacked his lunch and realized it was all in "The Incredibles" zip-lock sandwich bags I got on sale yesterday when I ran into the store to pick some up??


(I feel like every package has some sort of cartoon on it but I didn't expect it on the bags! Then again, this is a guy who enjoys Sponge Bob gummies soo....)

Monday, February 18, 2008

I went all Katie Holmes this weekend and got a bob n bangs haircut. Not the extreme bangs but the "side swept" bangs. I went to a new place (obviously) and just loved the girl and the place. Soothing, great music and just a great haircut for a reasonable price. And a neck massage. Cannot beat that and I love the cut, I needed a new sassy bob.

As I had a late appointment on Friday afternoon, we were chatting away about plans and Valentine's Day. She made the remark that I, as a married woman, had it so much easier than her. Dealing with men, dates and being single. And I felt her. I don't have the energy for that. I haven't been single in forever and I love being married and attached. But marriage requires work ma dear. Lots of it! I say that marriage is at the top of my priority list (because it most definitely is) but how come that is the easiest thing to ignore? We both want each other to be happy. Period. So then we tend to hold in our own emotions and feelings for the other's happiness, which just isn't a good idea. Especially being in a new place, with new job and stress. Arggh, weekend conflict. Oy! (But, the reason I love my husband is that we talk it all out and get it resolved).

Speaking of love...here's the recipe I posted about for Valentine's Day. It's super easy to adapt for your own taste.

Rachael Ray's Peasant Pasta

I've used ground turkey sausage and whole wheat pasta to make it on the healthier side. Don't get me wrong the sausage version is yum. And in my opinion , fresh basil makes anything delicious. I also made up a couscous salad this weekend. I like having it on hand for snacking or for lunches. I found a whole wheat couscous (in bulk) and chopped up some red onion, tomato and black olives. I tossed all of that together with a little olive oil and feta cheese. Mmmmm. I could eat an entire bowl of it - it is so good.

Speaking of good, this Bella Sera Rosso table wine is good and well-priced. I found a bottle on sale and may go back to get more. I usually have a glass or two of wine with dinner and this is perfect. I like the label too.



I started (unofficially) running last week and this weekend P and I put in our first run. Of course, we were over confident and ran more at first. By the end, we were like, "oh yeah, you good, too? yeahhh, let's not over do it." And totally sore the next day. But in a good way. I had the lovely experience of trying on jeans and seeing a muffin top that was definitely NOT there a few weeks ago. Back to running it is! I've been comfort fooding myself hardcore this winter and it shows. But, I'm excited and energized to get back into a real workout schedule. I am one of those people who totally feeds off of (and NEEDS) a real sweaty workout. It keeps me a more sane and reliable person. Now, I just hope the cold weather doesn't deter my motivation too much!!

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Canoodling, Hall & Oates & the best way to a man's heart

I'm of the "I enjoy Valentine's Day and do not believe that it's an evil corporate holiday" variety. I can't argue with a holiday centered around pink, chocolate and flowers. I like to celebrate, not analyze!

Our VDay plans include a dinner at home and maybe going to the downtown wine/cheese open house event they are having (sounds like a good way to see cool stores and mingle). I'm making a dinner that has some sentimental value.

I've never professed to be a good cook - I think I'm in the learning stages. P & I share a love of going to new restaurants, grocery shopping and cooking together. In the early stages of our love, I tried to impress him with my Rachel Ray cooking and sometimes it turned out (a few times...not so much!). Anyhoo, P is a man with a man's appetite. Which I like because I have a generous appetite and I'm not so sure I could have married someone who eats less than me. Ok, back to the food! I think it was for VDay, I made this "peasant pasta" recipe. It was a creamy tomato sauce with fresh basil, Parmesan and Italian sausage. P thought he had died and gone to heaven. He absolutely loved it and requested it many times after. Score! I finally understood the meaning of "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach." He definitely looked at me differently after that (or maybe he was just thinking of the sausage....). So, I'm making a somewhat healthier version of it tonight (wheat pasta, ground turkey) as a little nod to our past.
I'll also be playing a few romantic tunes by Hall and Oates (haha, go ahead and laugh). We connected on our love of 80s music and certainly we sang to Hall & Oates's "You Make My Dreams Come True" at our rehearsal karaoke. Yes, we did. It is our unofficial song.
So cheers to my husband who will eat my cooking and sing Hall and Oates on karaoke with me.

I've realized I'm not a fan of PDA. I mean, who is? I'm down with hand holding, kiss/pecks and hugs but I am generally not a fan of making out in public (except in late night bars, but that's a whole different topic...Just Kidding! Kind of.) Bad PDA is just bad. But "canoodaling" at a dinner with others - just annoying. Rewind to our dinner with colleagues the other night. I won't go into too much detail but suffice to say that one of my husband's bosses was generally canoodling with his girlfriend at dinner. The Entire Time. Like, patting each other on the knee, rubbing each other's backs, holding hands, having private whispered conversations and totally did the "hold my hand in front of my face/mouth and tell you a joke so we both laugh." Annoying? ohmygod! Rude? Personally, I thought it was pretty rude after a point. Canoodaling (P can't believe I use this word seriously)? Keep it to yourselves!!

In other news, I made BBQ pork last night. Threw in a pork loin I'd gotten on sale in the crockpot with some sauce and spices. Left it on all day and when I got home it just fell apart and was soooo good. BBQ, by the way, may as well be called puppy crack. We gave Ralph a few tid-bits in his bowl (after his dinner and treat of course!) and he went crazy!! Like a mad man running around sniffing and looking for more. Funny.

This whole Roger Clemens thing has me interested. I've never been into baseball and really have no idea what is going on but I happened to watch some of the hearing yesterday. Seems pretty crazy to me. I felt that there is dishonesty on both sides after listening to both of them, I just couldn't tell about what they were being dishonest. Hmm! Curious to see where this goes. I had a lot of male students last semester who were really passionate about sports & steroid use. I had several in each class write persuasive papers on the use of it in professional sports.

Have a Happy Valentine's Day!!

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Notes on a Random Day

I've got a few things to do today so this will be quick:

Scheduled a hair cut for Friday - going to the bob/bangs deal - I think it will be a good change. I really don't like when the stylist schedules you for a specific person and then changes without telling you - for some reason this aggravates me. Although, I've never been to the place and will probably love the person!

I'm not so sure when GINORMOUS leather satchels from designers by the name of Coach, Louis Vuitton and Dolce and Gabbana became popular in high school! Like, seriously? Yeah. I can't believe what some teenagers are walking around with during the school day. Geeezzzz.

I can't stand when people can't "Deal" with things. The small things in life. Basically one job I've applied for requested an online skill/work survey for my references. Long story short, (which I think survey has maybe 15 questions and takes oh, probably less than 5) and I've emailed my references the link. Twice. I had an old professor email me and basically criticized me for not warning her of "changing my name" and how she assumed it was spam b/c she didn't recognize the name. Ok, probably should have warned people, but I assume people can figure things out. Apparently, they can not. Grr. The point is, why is this stressing that person out, to the point of sending me 2 huffy emails. No way dude, let it go and I'll gladly take you off the list!


P is a good driver but his little sporty convertible is not sufficient for the snow and he had a little scare on his commute yesterday b/c he's never really driven in snow! This has and probably will continue to stress me out while we have bad weather. And then, we went out to eat to a really nice steak restaurant with his co-workers last night. You know, the kind where you order the steak and then the sides separately to the table. Of course, I ordered Ahi Tuna, don't know why - I mean I enjoy steak. Had that and lovely martini. And their creamed spinach was heavenly! God, it was like mac n cheese with spinach. And then I'm having the internal dilemma (when there is an entire plate of it left and it's obvious no one else is touching it) can...I just...inhale that entire thing, would it be rude?? Of course I didn't but it was a thought. And as we don't eat steak much, P had a good sized one - medium rare. Well, that didn't agree with him the moment he got home, so he got up late for work and is sticking to bananas, yogurt and crackers today. Poor guy!


Ok, that's it for now!

Sunday, February 10, 2008

Going to early Mass, walking the dog, hitting up Dunkin Donuts for coffee & old fashioneds and making the weekly grocery trip before noon? I say productive! And now, to relax this afternoon with Cottage Living, Real Simple and Great Gatsby. Because it is seriously cold outside. Like jumping into a freezing body of water cold!

Which reminds me. A letter to my dear dog:
Ralph,
I get that you like to sniff every Square inch of the countryside before you do your daily business. You don't have a warm bathroom, so I sympathize. But days like today, when I realize jeans are just not enough against the cold - for the love of pete - just take a crap already!!!


So, P and I decided that for Lent, we are "giving up being couch potatoes." We are beginning a running routine again, so that we can give up unhealthy habits during Lent. I think that sounds good - so by the time Easter rolls around, we'll be in shape!


Sewing? I'm interested in getting a machine for many reasons. I love fabric stores and all of the fabric choices out there. I love the idea of making my own curtains, pillows and perhaps pieces of clothing. I just usually feel like it is something I could do, I just haven't made the effort.

Sew, bloggers (haha!), give me your advice!

Good beginner's machine?

Where to buy fabric?

Patterns?


Oh, and any good recommendations for shampoo and conditioner for extremely dry/thick hair?

Friday, February 8, 2008

Lost

Ye of little faith,
I recently got a phone with a camera (after grumbling that oh, I don't need one of those fancy gadgets) and who's obsessed? Me. Pictures of everything, it's great!

Then, for the first time, P and I DVR'd LOST. Never watched it before and we caught up with the "catch up" episode and this season's episode premiere. Who's obsessed? Me.

I'm a few years late, but I'm here with my DVR, camera phone and Lost.

This reluctance to technology may be a signal of my aging. Yikes.

One Year

Yesterday, I'm doing my usual blog perusing and run across MMM's blogiversary! Then, I'm like hmmm, MMM and I started around the same time. I realized we started on the same day!! My "premiere post" was on February 7th, last year. I remember MMM was one of my first links and I was so excited to be able to read about another bride's wedding.
I started my blog after reading Preppy Cafe (like many of you!) and reading so many other blogs. I wanted my own outlet and specifically for wedding planning since that was my ENTIRE life this time last year. I truly didn't realized how it would become an essential outlet and network for me. I genuinely appreciated and used everyone's tips/comments on wedding planning. Seriously! I loved having a place to talk about shopping and clothes (it will really surprise you that my second post was "J.Crew, you are my dirty mistress!)

But beside the fun clothing, shopping and wedding talk, it became much more. I don't edit it that much because well, it's my journal. I "proofread" in real life, but no here. I haven't told anyone, except my husband, that I have this blog. Because I don't need or want to do that. I felt like I had "met" a fabulous group of people who were similar to me. Who could give me encouragement on the crappy days and laughs on the good days. Who helped me get through the best times (marriage) and some lower ones. As time passed, I decided to let myself be more vulnerable and post my insecurities and failures - which has sincerely helped me become a more open person. I needed this blog the last few months when we moved because it gave me a social stability. I may not be the best commenter but I always read. And I appreciate those of you who have put yourselves out there. And I love reading about other people's day - doesn't matter what you do, I like reading it! I read the ones who've been doing this longer that I realized blogs existed and those who just started. I love this community of blogging and it helps me everyday to blog out my emotions. And I absolutely loved going back to read what I was doing on a random February afternoon last year.

A year ago, I had no idea where I would be. I started this blog after reading so many Knot websites on a dreary afternoon at my dull office job. I had no idea it would be this great! I still don't know what I'll be doing a year from now, but it's kinda exciting. So, Cheers! To another year!

Have a great weekend!

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

My week has been slightly uneventful so far. I think I'll be getting work at the end of this week/beginning of next week. Of course, now that working most days is on the horizon, I think to myself - do you really want to give up your Martha Stewart in the morning? (I do, I really do!)

I've been following the primaries on T.V. and keeping up with all of that news. P says he's tired of the news 24/7 about the election which I can see BUT I would much rather the news be covering something (allll the time) that IS newsworthy. This election? Is totally newsworthy and should be everywhere, instead of what they've been covering (like celeb gossip).

Yesterday, I realized (of course after running errands, going to a meeting etc.) that my favorite black shirt had a little hole in it. Right on the boob area. Totally noticeable. You know how you have that "black shirt" that is THE staple. I got this one from Anthropologie, gosh about 2 or 3 years ago. It was of the long length type, had elbow length sleeves and a rounded/boat neck. Perfect because I could dress it up or just wear with jeans. As much wear as this guy has gotten, though, I'm surprised it's held up this long! I suppose now, I need a new one.

What to give up for Lent? Last year I gave up cookies (I think). Because I am a cookie monster, that was a long Lent! By virtue of budgeting and lack of job, I haven't been shopping, so that's not a great idea. I could say I would give up dessert - but do I want to really say something that probably won't follow through? I usually give up some sort of sweet. Any ideas, what are you giving up?

Real Simple's March issue has a great section on budgeting and reveals the monthly expenses of 4 women. Really informative. I think I've just been harping on budgeting lately because I'm out of work, we want to save for a house and looking at the economy - well, I think everyone is pulling back. It also makes me think (P & I have many discussions on this) how our culture just places sooooo much importance on money. We just want to be able to live happy and comfortable lives and not beyond our means. It is hard though and P always mentions how we should get a weekend hobby that does not include shopping (ok, that is totally me and I will probably NEVER give up shopping) but I'd like to have a better outlook on it. I talk to my grandparents who didn't have cell phones, cable, internet and going out to eat bills. And they were happy! They didn't see the need in the extra spending, and I hope to use them as role models for that! Whew, that's enough of the soapbox today.

I've been perusing home decorating sites, magazines and stores just to have get ideas about how I'd like to decorate a house (one day!). I thought about getting all Martha and clipping out pics I like and saving them in a book. Then, I realized that would never get done and I could just bloggy it away! Plus, we've been spending a decent amount of our weekends looking at furniture. Sitting on couches with pestering salesmen giving us their card (listen, I know it's commission but please give us a minute!). P & I are pretty much on the same page about our style for a home (this is Surprising b/c usually we don't even agree on movies!). Traditional with clean modern lines. What has been surprising to us out there in furniture store land? How many stores rip you off with prices that do not match quality! How many show rooms are cluttered full of pieces you can't even tell what's what. How people run with "modern" furniture and the store looks like it's out of the Jetson's. Modern can be clean lines and functional my friends! Anyway, we've agreed that the places where we want to buy the long lasting pieces of furniture that are our taste are just not in the budget right now. We will make do with some cheaper (read IKEA and friends) pieces that will suffice and probably be good for kids rooms/play rooms/living rooms down the road.

Howeva, here are some pics I found that I love.
Domino Magazine has some great galleries:



I grew up in a 1920's house and we had a porcelain tub - I love this tub!
I really like the clean lines, the bead boarding and the white tiles in this bathroom.


I enjoy butcher block counters. I know granite is all the rage and I would never turn it down, but I think butcher block is my favorite. The pink tiles are fun aren't they?

Friday, February 1, 2008

Starbucks, tea, style & other things

The Mr. (from now on referred to as P) only had to go into work for a few hours today because of the predicted snow (we still got some) so I'm excited about our afternoon together. We got Ralph a new toy which is this hedgehog that makes a weird grunting sound. Ralph gets annoyed (i.e. destroys) toys that make noise but for some reason he's content running around the house with this toy making a noise like someone's having an asthma attack. It's cracking me up.

The other day Kerry from More, More, More asked about the Starbucks v. DD question. I didn't start drinking coffee until the end of my undergrad career. I always swore I would NEVER be one of those people with an (I thought) obnoxious coffee order. Then. Then, I got obsessed with my grande, non-fat, no foam latte with 2 splenda. Yeah, there I was - addicted! Eventually, I realized I needed to control my "latte" factor and began making my own espressos at home. We never really had a DD around, until now. I like DD because of their prices and P likes their coffee better. However, I don't have the willpower to walk into a place filled with donuts - that's why I like the drive-thru! Last semester, though, I was drinking a ridiculous amount of espresso & coffee. I just wanted to switch a de-tox, so we starting drinking tea every morning. We both agree that we feel much better and don't have that "coming down" in the afternoon. I don't doubt that I'll be back to drinking it more when I start working more but for now the English breakfast tea is making me feel more healthy. (Is that as much as you wanted to know about my caffeine intake?! haha)

Speaking of the latte factor, I'm not shopping but J.Crew? You are killing me. Seriously! Can. NOT. afford. Must. NOT. look. I would do a lot for this jacket. J.Crew gods, if you are listening, I would be happy to receive some kickbacks for all of the love I send your way!!

Of course, as with any spring line, I get infatuated with the bright colors, madras and seersucker and convince myself I need it all. Really, I don't. At all. I live happily without all of the things I don't have. Not saying it's hard, I have friends who buy alllll the clothes/jewelry/great bags they want. And yes, I get jealous. And then I forget, because I just live my life. I'd love to have everything I post on here, but I know I don't need it and usually a few months later I forget about it.

As I'm pondering all this, TCP shared a great article about style today. Thanks TCP, I loved reading it. It reminds me of the true sophistication of style and more importantly, knowing your own personal style. And personally, I love that era of 50s dresses because I think women look sexy, smart and confident in dresses. I know I feel most confident in a great dress. Also, I love the idea of making the most out of what you own. Buying long-lasting, classic pieces (like a sheath dress) will make your wardrobe last. But I love what Mr. Kors says at the end of the piece, "These days it is a badge of honor to wear an outfit more than once.(Nytimes.com)" Sorry Mr. Kors, that is called "reality" and we all wear outfits more than, usually because we just enjoy the outfit. Goodness!

Have a great weekend!